I build stuff on the web and write about what I learn — code, systems, and slow living. No bullshit, just honest notes. Hope it gives you good vibes — inspired, calm, or just a quiet moment.
Discipline is not about cramming work into every minute. It's about finishing what must be done quickly, so you have more time for the things you love without counting the cost.
A record of Day 1 after leaving my job early. On learning to rest without guilt.
I came across the term 骑墙派 — fence-sitter — and started using it on myself. The diagnosis: wanting the salary, the remote work, and the light workload all at once.
Rest triggers anxiety. Anxiety triggers busyness. I thought I could break the loop by choosing a slow-paced break — but the pendulum swung anyway.
I told a friend I was taking two months off. He warned me the market was bad. I spent weeks making that decision — and it shook in thirty minutes.
A Wednesday night run started like any other — until a Spotify playlist and real rain collided into a moment that can't be staged.
A midday grocery run became a mirror for a habit I didn't know I had — rushing for no reason at all.
How a half pack of tissue in the washing machine taught me that fifteen minutes of accountability beats a whole day of resentment.
Day 2 of doing nothing: two strangers showed up at my door and fixed a leak I had ignored for months. A reflection on noticing kindness when you finally slow down.